Disclaimer: The following story is based on true events. However, in order to protect the privacy and identities of the individuals involved, certain names and identifying details have been altered. The intent is to maintain the authenticity of the narrative while safeguarding the privacy and anonymity of those whose stories are being shared.
Introduction
Samarth Singh, a dedicated Class IV government servant, was on the verge of retiring after a lifetime of hard work. His efforts had allowed him to secure a home for himself and accumulate savings. While his retirement income would provide an additional financial boost to his current situation, it also made him a focal point of attention among his relatives who shared similar or even more challenging financial circumstances.
Samarth Singh is the father of two sons, and this is the story of Gurjeet Singh, his elder son. Gurjeet Singh, a +2 passed, has devoted his life to serving the Gurudwaras and spends his time with the kirtan mandali at the Gurudwara Sahib. While Samarth Singh accepts and supports Gurjeet’s chosen path, he also carries concerns. He contemplates the future, considering who will provide for and look after Gurjeet when he is no longer present. Additionally, Gurjeet Singh has reached the age of marriageability, prompting the thought that it might be time for him to settle down.
An offer you can’t refuse
Behind every deception, there often lies an offer that seems irresistible. However, in the case of Samarth Singh, this offer held an unusual reliability as it originated from within the family circle.
Rajdeep Kaur happened to be the daughter of Samarth Singh’s cousin brother, establishing a longstanding connection between the families. The roots of their relationship stretched back to their very births. Rajdeep Kaur, driven by aspirations to relocate to Canada, was concurrently employed in an Immigration Office, resolutely pursuing her dreams.
Rajdeep Kaur’s confidence in her aspirations was palpable; she had successfully passed the IELTS exam and was merely a step away from applying for a student passport. Yet, this step necessitated a thorough financial background check to assess the applicant’s capacity to bear the associated expenses—an aspect she found herself lacking in.
Turning to Samarth Singh’s family, Rajdeep Kaur’s kin were well aware that Samarth Singh’s impending retirement would usher in a significant financial boost. Seizing this opportunity, they approached Samarth Singh and proposed the idea of Rajdeep Kaur’s marriage to Sajan Singh, fully cognizant of the potential financial support this alliance could bring.
Too good to believe
The proposition seemed almost too good to be true, especially given the stark contrast in attitude and confidence between Rajdeep Kaur and Gurjeet Singh. Rajdeep Kaur exuded ambition and a directness that stood in stark juxtaposition to Gurjeet’s selfless, pure-hearted devotion to God and the Gurus. Remarkably, this divergence didn’t perturb Rajdeep Kaur. She not only accepted the proposition but also found contentment in it, even as she embarked on a journey of getting to know Gurjeet Singh over a span of more than two years. This chapter of their lives culminated in their eventual union through marriage.
This deliberate span of two years was designed to ascertain the couple’s compatibility and happiness within the relationship. Remarkably, over this extended engagement period, which surpassed two years, no issues of concern arose. During this time, they embraced shared experiences, celebrating birthdays in unison, partaking in pre-wedding photoshoots, and Rajdeep Kaur openly sharing moments from their journey on various social media platforms.
Observing this evident happiness, Samarth Singh wholeheartedly embraced the opportunity to support Rajdeep Kaur in her aspirations of relocating to Canada. Without any hesitation, he extended financial assistance, transferring a substantial sum of 7.5 lakh Rupees to her bank account, along with an additional 2.5 lakh Rupees in cash. To facilitate this generous gesture, Samarth Singh reached out to friends and relatives, borrowing the funds necessary to ensure his daughter-in-law and son could embark on their journey to Canada and establish a fulfilling life there.
What followed?
Rajdeep Kaur deliberately prevented the consummation of the marriage, offering a series of excuses to avoid it. After a mere 17 days of being married, she departed from her marital residence, citing the demands of her job and the need to stay at her maternal home.
Her conduct didn’t raise any immediate suspicions. She treated everyone in the family with courtesy, maintaining a positive demeanor. Even after leaving her marital home, she continued to engage with all family members in a congenial manner, gaining their trust. Samarth Singh, driven by his trust in her, proceeded to transfer a substantial amount of Rs. 3,50,000/- to her bank account approximately three months after she had left. This was based on his belief that she was actively working towards seizing the opportunity to apply for a visa.
Now enough money was given to Rajdeep
Charmed by her eloquence and demeanor, Rajdeep managed to secure a significant sum of Rs. 10,00,000/- from Samarth Singh. However, he began to grow concerned due to the absence of tangible efforts or outcomes on Rajdeep’s part. Balancing the financial needs of his two sons, including the necessity to settle his younger son, Samarth Singh opted to discontinue any further monetary assistance.
Subsequently, Rajdeep’s interactions with the family came to a halt. She ceased attending phone calls and refrained from responding to WhatsApp messages, marking a notable shift in her behavior.
Gurjeet goes to Rajdeep
Witnessing this abrupt transformation in Rajdeep’s behavior, Gurjeet embarked on a journey to her maternal home. However, instead of a warm reunion, he was met with disdainful words from Rajdeep, who disparaged him as an uneducated and idle individual. She declined his company, citing her embarrassment to be associated with him.
The aftermath of this encounter led to social judgment directed at Gurjeet for not being actively employed and dedicating a significant portion of his time to the Gurudwara. Despite the negative spotlight, Gurjeet’s inherently altruistic nature prevailed. He harnessed these adverse circumstances as a catalyst for positive change, choosing to see the opportunity within the challenges.
In a testament to his resilient character, Gurjeet opted to take up work as a Zomato delivery boy, operating from Rajdeep’s maternal home. This decision not only showcased his readiness to evolve for the sake of their relationship but also acted as a tangible demonstration of his commitment to change.
Despite Rajdeep’s attempts to belittle him for his stay at her maternal home, Gurjeet chose to bear the brunt of her insults with unwavering dignity. He internalized these insults, believing them to be warranted. His perseverance and determination to stand his ground remained unwavering, as he continued to steadfastly pursue his endeavors.
Things changed but not Rajdeep
Gurjeet’s steadfast dedication transformed the way everyone perceived him, with the notable exception of Rajdeep. Those very relatives and acquaintances who had previously criticized him for his perceived idleness were now singing his praises, lauding his unwavering commitment to their relationship. This shift in perception even extended to Rajdeep’s own father, who began to hold Gurjeet in high regard, an unexpected development that triggered an astonishing reaction from Rajdeep.
Rajdeep fled from her own maternal home
Observing this significant transformation in societal perception and even her own father’s stance, Rajdeep’s response was unexpected—she abruptly departed from her parental home, disappearing after her work hours.
Several days elapsed, and then suddenly Rajdeep’s parents, along with Gurjeet and his parents, were served with a summons from the Hon’ble High Court of Punjab & Haryana. The summon revealed that Rajdeep had sought legal protection against her own parents, Gurjeet, and Gurjeet’s parents. Her claim asserted that she had been coerced into marrying Gurjeet against her will, prompting legal intervention.
This revelation hit Gurjeet like a bolt from the blue, especially given that he was still staying at Rajdeep’s maternal home. Following this revelation, he made the decision to depart from Rajdeep’s maternal house and return to his own residence.
Resuming his familiar routine, Gurjeet found solace in his true self. Once more, he felt the world around him lacked the trustworthiness he sought. Consequently, he reconnected with his Kirtan Mandali, finding solace and tranquility in immersing himself in the divine through the practice of devotion.
But that was Gurjeet’s nature, not Samarth Singh’s
Samarth Singh had lived in this world. He had worked hard for that money he saved up to settle his son. He was not easily giving up. Proving all the transactions and every fact, he was successful in lodging an FIR under section 420 & other sections of IPC.
Seeing this, Rajdeep Kaur retaliated with a complaint under section 406, 498A IPC in Women Cell. Which after thorough investigation of the facts, even Women Cell refused to lodge FIR. (So far no FIR is lodged)
Apart from this, Rajdeep Kaur also filed a Petition under section 125 Cr.P.C. before the Court, in which I stand for Gurjeet’s side.
The fight goes on
The results of this conflict will soon be updated HERE. The purpose of sharing this story is to shed light on how the legal system has become a weapon for abusers. A mere false or baseless accusation can lead to a significant expenditure on one’s lifetime, both in terms of time and finances, within the confines of the judicial system.
While Rajdeep managed to obtain funds from Gurjeet and Samarth Singh and can afford the expenses related to legal proceedings and lawyers, Gurjeet and Samarth Singh have already endured substantial losses. Engaging with courts, legal representatives, and other associated aspects only adds an additional burden on them.
Nevertheless, despite these challenges, we are compelled to adhere to the law, even when it appears to conflict with the ethical principles enshrined within the Indian Constitution.
And so, we shall continue to navigate this complex landscape.
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